Sunday morning a select group of us went for a biking tour of Old Delhi led by a Canadian and an Aussie. Before we began the trip we saw bodies lining the streets trying to keep warm under blankets. This was a shocking experience for me. As I began to pick up on the trip, and as I later learned this is a Muslim area. I felt like I was in the middle east as I rode through. That may mainly have been because of the dress of the people. Mostly it was a lot of long loose layers with wraps around the head and shoulders trying to stay warm. In one specific section many men wore the Muslim flat topped hats. Part of what we went through was a meat market with carcasses and blood and brains everywhere. The roads were really hard to navigate as they were really tiny and filled with lots of pedestrians, bikers, 2 wheelers, people pushing large loads and a few cars. Here we rode past people sleeping in the streets, with doorless businesses lining them where some people also slept. I also saw people washing themselves in the streets with water from faucets. The poverty was really severe and heartbreaking. Alongside the businesses were little places the worship set up with music playing and/or incents burning. With all of this ruckus and life around us, the inhabitants were not put off by our large group of tourists riding through to observe them. Many people would even say hi and smile. There were animals, stray dogs and livestock also all over the streets. This would become a not uncommon sight in India. The stray dogs especially. Dr. Gupta said whenever the gov’t tried to do anything the animal rights people make a scene but I don’t see a problem with neutering the animals. The stray dogs made me so sad. Many we saw had barely any hair or were emaciated and I saw a few with limbs broken and bent backwards. I love my dog, as we say, “Man’s best friend!”
We stopped for a Chai tea which was amazing, so much better than what I’ve had in America. This we bought for about 10 rupees on the side of the road from a few men who ran their business from behind a piece of wood. Our guide told us that the government had dismantles this illegal business once, only for them to come back in a week and start back up again. Apparently this type of illegal business is not uncommon throughout India as well as the tendency for them to just come back a few days later.
We also stopped for lunch at Carim’s, supposedly top 10 in Asia. I was not impressed.
Next we headed on our long and uncomfortable ride to Punjab to Lovely Professional University. Things noticed while driving include lots of border security just to cross into another state, awful infrastructure, cows chillen in the streets, and “English” alcohol shops. I’m interested by alcohols place in Indian society. Dr. Gupta described it as similar to the US and a “hate- love relationship.” I didn’t spend enough time in India to get a proper feel for it but I felt that it was never really around and perhaps even a bit taboo.
Once we arrived at Lovely Professional University we met our e-buddies. I was really excited to meet mine since we had had plenty of email correspondence and she seemed like a really sweet girl. Her name is Deepna Dang. For the first night we had a bonfire and everyone danced around it. Here again I noticed people dancing shamelessly. All of our e-buddies really waited on us and treated us like we were something special but also ordered us around in an attempt to make sure we maximized our time there. I’m pretty uncomfortable having people wait on me, and I also don’t really care for being ordered around so this was one element of hospitality that I was happy to leave behind.
I saw Deepna’s room and she shared it with 4 other girls and they all had their beds pushed together. They didn’t have any heat or space heaters, and blow dryers weren’t allowed. Seemed like an awful place to live to me. But Dr. Gupta explained that sharing beds is much more common in India and I know in different cultures the concept of personal space varies so I can understand how an India wouldn’t mind.
I heard that there were different rules for men and women in the university. Men have no curfew and women have to be in by 6pm. Believing there was no way this could possibly be true I asked my ebuddy and not only was it true she didn’t mind! This I still cannot wrap my head around! If, as cultural anthropologist say, young people are basically the same all around the world- how do you reconcile that with this? Shouldn’t any young person want to seek independence and believe that they can make the best choices for themselves? And 6pm isn’t even like 10pm- it’s like you’re not even living, you’re just coming in for dinner and sitting in bed existing the rest of the night.
The next day we had a lecture at Lovely Professional University, visited a Hindu temple in Jalinder, and visited Lovely Autos and Lovely Sweets.
Some of the other students thought that the colors and idols and means of worshipping seemed more like an amusement park than a temple and devalued the idea of worshipping. I can understand their point from a western background, but it seems arbitrary to me to assign one way of worshipping as meaningful and one was a meaningless especially on the grounds of how bright the colors are.
Along the same lines as that. Meeting Deepna made me think about the idea that Westerners are more civilized than brown people. As I was talking to this girl who was content to come in at 6pm every night and didn’t want to date until her parents chose a husband for her and thinking about the things I do I couldn’t help but think “This girl is way more civilized than me!”
At Lovely Autos they introduced to their “upgrade” business model. This means that in a growing middle class Lovely is encouraging their customers to upgrade from a bike to a 2 wheeler and from a two wheeler to a car.
At Lovely Sweets the manager was actually interest in our input in how to break into the American market.




